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Know someone going through chemo? Here’s what NOT to say!

22 Sep

Do you know someone going through chemotherapy? Guide2Chemo.com offers some advice about how best to support them through their treatment. You may be surprised how your well intended comments may not have their intended effect. Keep Calm … and read on.

keep-calm-shhhh“Many people undergoing chemo have similar experiences—well-meaning friends and family who are unsure of what to say, inadvertently causing the chemo patient to feel, well…worse.

And Patricia Farrell, a psychologist in Englewood Cliffs, NJ, says hearing comments that make you feel badly can actually have an impact on your health. “Negative thoughts, even those brought on by other people’s careless remarks, can lower your immune system,” says Farrell, author ofHow to Be Your Own Therapist: A Step-by-Step Guide to Taking Back Your Life. ‘Unfortunately, many women feel obligated to be accommodating and fail to insist on boundaries in conversations.’

If you’re speaking with someone who is currently undergoing or recently underwent chemo treatments, unintentionally negative remarks are easy to avoid if you know which topics should be off-limits. Stay away from:

  1. False compliments
  2. Comparisons
  3. Death and limitations
  4. Anxiety-provoking comments
  5. Treatment woes”

Read the full article at Guide2Chemo.com

2015 Day of Service-Saturday, September 26th

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The Pinkwellchick Foundation, Inc.’s Bag It for the Cause Day of Service is PWCF’s annual service initiative to assemble and to distribute free Barb’s Bagof Care & Comfort chemotherapy bags to cancer treatment infusion centers for female chemo patients diagnosed with breast cancer.

This year, Bag It for the Cause is Saturday, September 26, 2015. Barb’s Bag Ambassadors will lead gatherings in six cities: Chicago, Houston, Los Angeles, Miami, New York, and Phoenix. Join us as a volunteer, donor or sponsor to Bag it for the Cause!

About BAG IT™ for the CAUSE Day of Service

The 2015 Sponsors & Patrons

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How just a $50 donation can bless a life …

13 Sep

The BAG IT™ for the CAUSE Day of Service is just days away.

What can YOU do to support this initiative and women with breast cancer & their families?

Gift a …

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Bless a …

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Donate just $50 now to gift Barb’s Bag™ to a woman currently undergoing or scheduled to undergo chemotherapy. Your charitable gift is 100% tax-deductible.

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Patron: $50 donation to fund 1 bag

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Donate Dollars: Donate any amount to support Pinkwellchick Foundation, Inc.’s general fund to help us continue our work to support, educate and encourage breast cancer survivors, their families & caregivers! One hundred percent of your donation is tax-deductible. Consult your tax professional for additional information.

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We need YOUR help to deliver Barb’s Bag chemo comfort bags to underserved breast cancer patients

14 Aug

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Barb’s Bag™ of Care & Comfort is an actual bag filled with essential items for chemotherapy patients to not only survive but thrive during their chemotherapy treatments.

Think of it as a chemo survival kit!

Our founder, Barbra Watson-Riley, received a “chemo bag” early in her “life in the cancer lane” from her dear friend, and former Pinkwellchick Foundation, Inc., board member Lori Hall-Armstrong. Barbra blogged regularly about how much she treasured that bag. It contained everything from an essential document organizer, to air sickness bags, aromatherapy, ginger candies, lotion, blanket, socks and much more.

Barb’s Bag™ of Care & Comfort is made of high-end material and includes a range of products that Barbra identified as essential when going through chemotherapy.  The bag also includes “Real Talk” information about what to expect during chemo and an exclusive access code to stream Life in the Cancer Lane (Barbra’s play, with Hollywood star of stage and screen Valarie Pettiford) from any device in the United States.

Sponsor. Donate. Volunteer.

There are three ways to get involved. Become a Sponsor, Patron or Donor to help PWCF to underwrite the cost of bag production and delivery or Volunteer to help assemble bags on the Day of Service.

Every dollar donated goes to produce and distribute Barb’s Bag™ for Bag It™ for the Cause Day of Service. Any undistributed bags will be distributed free of charge thereafter to female chemotherapy patients diagnosed with breast cancer. Note, in the future PWCF also plans to produce additional bags to offer via its  Bag It™ for the Holidays and the “Bag It,™ Give It” promotions.

Sponsor

We seek sponsors to help subsidize (or fully sponsor) the production and distribution of the bags. One hundred percent of sponsorship dollars is tax-deductible. Consult your tax professional for additional information. Each bag costs $50 to produce.

Unless the Sponsor requests “anonymous” status, all Sponsors will be listed on the Bag It™ for the Cause webpage and in promotional copy as follows:

Patron ($50) and Silver Sponsors ($100) will be listed on the Bag It™ for the Cause webpage and promotional copy. (No patron or sponsor limit)

Gold Sponsors ($250) will be listed on the Bag It™ for the Cause webpage and promotional copy and are invited to insert one promotional flyer into all bags sponsored by said sponsor. (No sponsor limit)

Platinum Sponsors ($500) will be listed on the Bag it for the Cause™ webpage and promotional copy and are invited to insert one promotional item into all bags sponsored by said sponsor; provided the item must fit proportionally in the existing bag and PWCF reserves the right to refuse any item that does not so fit. (20 sponsor limit)

Diamond Sponsors ($1,000) will be listed on the Bag it for the Cause™ webpage and promotional copy and are invited to insert one promotional item into all bags sponsored by said sponsor; provided the item must fit proportionally in the existing bag and PWCF reserves the right to refuse any item that does not so fit. In addition, Diamond Sponsor logo and/or website will be included on the webpage and hyperlinked to the Diamond Sponsor’s website. (10 sponsor limit)

**All sponsors should complete the online form before submitting payment**

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Diamond: $1,000 donation to fund 20 bags

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Platinum: $500 donation to fund 10 bags

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Gold: $250 donation to fund 5 bags

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Silver: $100 donation to fund 2 bags

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Patron: $50 donation to fund 1 bag

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Donate

Donate Bags: Donating more than 20 bags? Please donate number of bags to support the production and distribution of Barb’s Bag free of charge to chemo patients in under-served communities. Each bag costs $50 to produce. If you are donating bags for a certain city, please indicate so in the comments section.

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Donate Dollars: Donate any amount to support Pinkwellchick Foundation, Inc.’s general fund to help us continue our work to support, educate and encourage breast cancer survivors, their families & caregivers! One hundred percent of your donation is tax-deductible. Consult your tax professional for additional information.

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Volunteer

We need volunteers to gather on our Bag It™ for the Cause Day of Service to make this service project a grand success. Six great cities. One important cause. Sign up now to volunteer for a gathering near you!

“Medical Minute” by Barbra Watson-Riley: Real Talk about chemotherapy side effects

8 Jul

What everyone recently diagnosed with breast cancer (and their family & friends) should know about the side effects of chemotherapy.

[Repost from inkwellchicks.com written by Barbra Watson-Riley (12/4/2011) in her “cancer real talk” style]

 

 

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“You are supposed to be sick, and here you are profiling”, said one of my “LINKed in Friendship” sisters, as we walked out of the Fashion Show yesterday. “I’m not ‘sick”, I replied. “But you are”, she insisted as she grabbed my hand.
20 minutes later, different woman comes and pulls me aside b/f our chapter meeting. “I am so glad to see you! Your treatment must not be that bad.” I smiled and responded, “When it hits me, it knocks me down. But today I am good.” To this she also grabbed my hand and said, “I don’t believe you get knocked down. You just look great”. All I could say was “thanks” and went straight to the bathroom and washed my hands! Germs!

How to reconcile this? I am so happy that folks think I look good! I don’t consider myself sick. But since I evidently…

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Essentials

25 Oct

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Day 3 of Chemo Beauty Week!

So we know to hydrate inside and out.  We know that you can still have fab nails.  How about make up?  As chemo starts to affect the body you may see some changes in the texture of your skin.  I developed dark circles under my eyes, and lost my eyebrows and eyelashes.  Before Chemo, I wasn’t a “full face” kind of gal.  But I soon realized that this was not the time to go without make up or skin care.  So to avoid looking like an alien, I put together my make up first aid kit.

Tip #3: Don’t forget the face essentials!

Below are MY face essentials.  Use what feels right to you!  But remember, every gal benefits from some concealer, bronzer and lip-gloss!

My face essentials!

  • Oil of Olay Complete: This is a great moisturizer that also has SPF in it, to protect the skin.
  • Fiberwig Massacre:  My eyelashes didn’t fall out immediately.  I put a very light coat of massacre on when they started to thin.  Be careful when washing the face, so you don’t inadvertently pull them out!   (Available at Sephora or Ricky’s)
  • Stencils by Anastasia: RUN to get these stencils even if you aren’t going through chemo!  The pack comes with several sizes and shapes.  They are easy to use and don’t give that “drawn on” look.  I now use one of the shapes for my real brows!
  • Baby Tip: Use a pencil to draw them on in SHORT strokes.  Then blend in powder after you get the shape.  The pencil helps it look natural.
  • MAC Prep & Primer:  Use this after your moisturizer and before your blush/bronzer. It helps set your make up and extends the wear.
  • MAC Bronzer: For that all over glow.
  • MAC Lip Glass:  I kept a Lip Glass or Lustreglass with me at all times. There are too many shades to count.  It doesn’t wear off and adds a light sheen.
  • Bobbi Brown Tinted Eye Brightener: A must for ANY gal!  No better product to cover those under eye circles.

So there you have it!  These products will work if you are going through chemo or not.

Remember, every girl needs her…essentials!